If you’re like many people who have experienced abuse, you may have lost faith in yourself and in the world around you. Abuse can leave victims feeling broken, lost, and alone. It can be hard to imagine a life beyond the abuse, but it is possible to heal and rebuild your life. It will take time, patience, and courage, but it is possible to regain your faith, self-love, and self-esteem.

Curtis McCoy still remembers his father’s words while handing him a gun: “Do the world a favor”. Those words hurt more than the physical abuse he suffered throughout his childhood. He couldn’t understand why his own father would want him dead. But instead of giving up, he decided to be different— to be a good person. Today, Curtis is “doing the world a favor” by serving others as an entrepreneur, influencer, keynote speaker, best-selling author, & TV show host. 

Listen in as Dr. Fred and Curtis share how we can turn our painful past into a testimony of victory. They also discuss how we can find strength when we feel like we’re only hanging by a thread, why we should not give up easily when other people tell us that there is no hope left for us, how we can recognize God’s hand when we are in the dark, and the greatest evidence that we have inherent worth and value.

 

“You were created in the image of God, the God that created the entire universe. And so by default, you are incredible.” -M. Curtis McCoy

 

Episode Highlights:

  • 02:39 A Childhood Pain
  • 08:46 “Do the World a Favor”
  • 13:54 Hanging by a Thread
  • 22:31 Healed from the Incurable 
  • 29:51 God’s Always Been There
  • 32:53 90 Days of Planning Life
  • 41:23 You Are Created in the Image of God

 

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Abuse of any form can leave victims feeling broken and worthless. But no matter how dark our past has been, we can get to a place where we feel whole and complete again. Listen in as @drfred100m and @MCurtisMcCoy share how we can regain our faith, self-love, and self-esteem. #HEALED #podcast #trauma #pain #childabuse #healingjourney #faith #self-love #self-esteem

 

Quotes: 

14:00 “It was keeping me hanging by a thread to knnow that there maybe a chance I could be something diffirent.” -M. Curtis McCoy

14:20 “There’s actually people that think different. Not everybody grows up to be an abusive, egotistical control freak, kind of a guy.” -M. Curtis McCoy

32:27 “When I ran my life by my will, I was creating pain and when I followed my heart, I created great and better things.” -Fred DiDomenico

37:40 “Money only goes so far. If you don’t have fulfillment, success can be very anticlimactic.” -Fred DiDomenico

38:29 “We’re learning what we don’t want so we can come closer to what we do want.” -Fred DiDomenico

39:16 “That man behind the curtain pulling the strings in your life, a lot of people don’t realize that’s ‘you’.” -M. Curtis McCoy

41:29 “You were created in the image of God, the God that created the entire universe. And so by default, you are incredible.” -M. Curtis McCoy

 

Meet Curtis:

Curtis McCoy is an American entrepreneur, influencer, personal development author, and keynote speaker. He’s also a best-selling self-help author & the host of “Success, Motivation & Inspiration” on Amazon Fire TV. 

After launching companies in medical, fashion, pharmaceuticals, manufacturing & distribution, he now runs websites and social media groups where he encourages other entrepreneurs to achieve success in their own lives!

McCoy has written four books including “How To Be Successful: Think Like A Leader”, “Developing Success, Motivation & Inspiration: Success After Failure”, “Learn to Send the Right Message: Using Nonverbal Communication” and “Become An Excellent Conversationalist”.